It’s Monday morning, February 13th, and the morning radio shows are abuzz with talk of Valentine’s Day. One of the morning deejays voiced how this year it didn’t matter if there were not dinner reservations or cards to exchange. She said she understood that her husband shows love by getting things done around the house, like installing new cabinets and remodeling the bathroom.
As my husband and I listened to this on our way to work, he looked at me and said, “He’s acts of service.” I replied, “And she’s gifts.”
Defined by author Dr. Gary Chapman, there are five love languages. I believe that it’s extremely beneficial for us to know how we as individuals receive love and appreciation best.
Think of it as literally speaking a different language. If you are trying to show someone that they are appreciated by giving compliments and they do not receive love by “words of encouragement” they just simply won’t feel love. It’s as if you are speaking Italian to someone who only speaks Spanish and expecting them to understand. Now that’s just crazy.
Celebrate Valentine’s Day by learning what love language you primarily speak. Take this 30-question quiz to learn where your love languages rank.
Did your results surprise you?
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